18 Things Great Parents Do Differently

18 Things Great Parents Do Differently

Parents are the first human beings we meet once we arrive in this world - and they are the most important guidance we have in life.

Everything we ever become later in life, is pretty much built on the foundation made by our parents.
Parenting is a complicated endeavor and a big responsibility.
And while no parent is perfect in carrying out their responsibilities, generally they all strive to be good.
With that in mind, there are certain things that great parents do differently.
Let’s find out what some of these things are!

Number 1 - They Get Along With Each Other

One of the most important things that differentiate great parents is how they interact with each other.
Children who are subjected to parents who don’t get along with each other (whether married or divorced) aren’t as well adjusted as those from families where there isn’t parental conflict.
Researchers also note that kids from a single parent family may actually fare better than those who come from a two-parent home where the parents fight often.
Good parents know, that no matter what happens between them, if they want their kids to grow up happy and well adjusted, they’ve got to figure out a way to get along.

Number 2 - They Show Physical Affection

Countless studies show that children thrive on warmth and affection.
A child who feels loved, will have greater self-esteem.
A warm touch or a caring hug can let a child know how much a parent cares.
Physical affection lessens the chances of children becoming aggressive, anti-social and having other behavioral problems.
While adolescents may be embarrassed by physical affection, there should always be words of support and empathy to take its place - and great parents know that.

Number 3 - They Spend Quality Time With Their Children

Great parents spend quality one-on-one time with each of their kids.
Children have different personalities, and some may seem to need less time than others - but they’ll all benefit from quality time with their parents.
It can be anything from playing sports, to cooking, or helping with chores.
There is no better way for parents to show their children how much they love and cherish them.
On busy work days, when they may not have a lot of one-on-one time with their children, great parents make sure to have longer interactions with them.

Number 4 - They Listen And Understand

Parents often spend a lot of their time talking to their kids, rather than with them.
But, we all want to be heard.
We all want to know that we matter.
When a child feels hurt, parents have an opportunity to show them that it’s okay, and talk through it.
Regardless of how old their children are, great parents make sure that they take the time to listen to their kids, and to understand their thoughts, fears and concerns.
Acknowledging children’s thoughts will help them develop the confidence they need later on, to take risks and challenge themselves.

Number 5 - They Guide And Support

Parents naturally want their kids to succeed and may push, prod, bribe, demand, or even threaten kids with punishment to get them to practice an instrument, excel at a sport, achieve top grades, and so on.
But good parents know that being a Tiger Mom (or Dad) isn't likely to get children further than providing them with guidance and support, and gently nudging - if, and when they need it.

Number 6 - They Don’t Make Their Children The Center Of The Universe

Some parents allow their lives to revolve around their children.
But kids who dictate what the family is going to eat for dinner, or those who orchestrate how to spend their weekends, have too much power.
Children who think they’re the center of the universe grow up to be self-absorbed and entitled.
Great parents empower their kids to make appropriate choices while maintaining a clear hierarchy, and teach their children to focus on what they have to offer the world - rather than what they’re owed.

Number 7 - They Don’t Confuse Discipline With Punishment

Punishment is about making kids suffer for their wrongdoing.
Discipline is about teaching them how to do better in the future.
And while great parents do give out consequences, their ultimate goal is to teach kids to develop the self-discipline they’ll need to make better choices down the road.

Number 8 - They Encourage Their Kids To Try New Things

Some children have no problem trying a new activity, while others are just never quite up for it.
Many children avoid the unfamiliar.
They prefer NOT to risk attempting something new, leading to missed opportunities and setting a negative pattern that can persist into adult life.
Great parents encourage their kids to try things that can push them out of their comfort zones.
But, they make sure that they're pushing their kids for the right reason - simply to try something, and not because they want their children to be something they're not.

Number 9 - They Protect, Preserve And Develop Their Children’s Unique Gifts

Identifying talents in children is very important and it’s equally important to nurture them.
This goes hand in hand with the previous point.
Parents can best recognize their children’s talents by giving them opportunities to explore many realms of expression and noting their interests and abilities.
Children are like sponges that soak up the reactions and actions of people around them - when they sense genuine interest in their abilities, there’s no limit to what they can do to become even better.
Great parents encourage and inspire their children to build their self-esteem and confidence in their gifts and talents, and they create a suitable environment for their kids to express themselves freely and openly.

Number 10 - They Teach How To Interact With Others

One of the most important skill sets parents can pass on to their children is social skills.
This affects everything they’ll go on to do - from their friendships and romantic relationships to their career.
Social kids grow up to be happy, successful, and smart adults!
A 20-year study found that parents who teach their children how to interact with others, are helping them develop the skills they need to be highly capable adults.
In fact, the study noted that socially competent children are 4 times more likely to earn a college degree by the time they’re 25.

Number 11 - They Acknowledge Their Mistakes And Apologize

Parents teach their kids to own up to things they did wrong and apologize and try to make up for what they did.
This is just as (if not more) important for parents to do themselves.
Good parents know that they too sometimes make mistakes - and they learn from them, and show their kids how to take responsibility for their actions.

Number 12 - They Give Responsibilities

Giving responsibilities to children increases their worth.
They know if they do these things, they get rewarded.
And, it’s not about monetary payments.
It’s about showing them that they need to care for their things.
They need to cherish what they have, and home is the first place to start.
Giving kids responsibilities and having them follow through is an effective way to teach them accountability.

Number 13 - They Strive To Be A Role Model

Children learn more from what their parents do rather than what they say.
Sometimes, parents unknowingly role model a few unhealthy behaviors for their kids.
For example, a father spends his evenings watching TV but tells his 14-year-old daughter she should read more.
Great parents strive to be great role models - not only through direct interactions with their children, but through the examples they set with their attitude and behavior within the family and in the outside world.
They take the opportunities every day to provide their kids with learning experiences so they can see how to behave appropriately.

Number 14 - They Have A Growth Mindset

A growth mindset is based on the idea that intelligence and personality are not fixed traits you are born with - but can be developed and grown into something more over time, with effort.
No one’s potential is a foregone conclusion, because you don’t know what may be achieved with passion and years of dedication and hard work.
For parents, maintaining a growth mindset when it comes to their children means that they give them support and opportunity to succeed.
Great parents encourage their children’s development, allow them to fail so that they may learn from it, and never subscribe to the idea that their children lack potential.

Number 15 - They Participate In Their Children’s Education

Great parents are fully invested in their children’s education.
A child who knows that his parents are part of his education, tends to work harder.
Positive reinforcement comes when parents help their children learn - this also becomes a time to spend together as a family.
Children need to know and feel that their parents care about their education and their future.

Number 16 - They Teach The Foundation For Success

Success is founded by the trials and errors of challenges.
Good parents know that it’s vital to teach their children that they can work hard and have success, and they also understand the importance to reward their children when they accomplish things in school or at home.
Kids’ self-confidence increases to higher levels when they know that their parents are in full support of what they do.
Raising a confident child with healthy self-worth, means being realistic, and understanding their strengths and weaknesses.
Children have to learn that not everything turns out great all the time, and they’re not always going to be a “winner” - but in trying and persevering, they can reach any goal they want.

Number 17 - They Encourage Their Children To Walk Their Own Path

Great parents don’t try to impose unrealistic and unsuitable expectations on their children.
They encourage their kids to always follow their hearts - even if it makes little or no sense to others.
Good parents constantly remind their children that each and every one of us is meant to walk on a unique path in life, and that only by walking on their own path will they always remember who they really are, where they come from, and where they’re going.

Number 18 - They Practice Self-Care

Great parents understand that prioritizing self-care is a huge protective factor when it comes to raising healthy children.
Parents who appropriately manage their own stress, will in turn, be more relaxed and thoughtful as parents, while at the same time teaching their children how to regulate their own emotions in a healthy way.
Parenting is a journey that takes plenty of patience and understanding.
Some parents follow textbook parenting techniques, others rely on their own instincts to make decisions and handle the behavior of their kids
While much of the parenting journey varies depending on the children’s actions, cultivating these qualities can certainly go a long way.
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